How Do You Want To Be Remembered When You Are Gone?

How Do You Want to Be Remembered When You are Gone? - - -
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Last year I read a book by Michael Hyatt called Living Forward. The premise of the book was learning the importance of creating a Life Plan. In making a life plan, one of the first steps is to write your own eulogy. Yes, you heard it correctly, your eulogy. That summary of your life that is read after your death, during your funeral service. It sounds kind of scary, but I went forward with the eerily process of writing a first draft.

As I wrote I could hear the question within me….

“How do I want to be remembered?”

I began writing and after a few pages, I started to think about this question differently. It wasn’t just how I wanted to be remembered when my spirit was far away from my body, and I was laying as a corpse in front of a room full of people in a church. No, I was beginning to think about how I wanted people to remember me, now.  Today, as a mother, daughter, sister, aunt, niece, friend, writer, and teacher.

How do I want people to remember me as human being?

As I thought about this question, I began to think about the people in my life, past and present, and how I remember them. I can start with my elementary school teachers. Every single one of them, I still remember.  There was Ms. Cooper, Mrs. Deacon, Mrs. Barsam, and Ms. Johnson. Outside of my classroom teachers, there was the music instructor, Ms. Carey and there was Mrs. Bolden who held tap dancing classes after school. These teachers made my elementary school years one of the most pleasant times of my life. They were serious, but fun, witty, kind, and loving to their students.

In my adult life there were a number of people, however my neighbors Richard and Patricia come to mind. They were an older couple who welcomed my son and I when we moved into the neighborhood. They looked out for us. Patricia would tell Richard to mow my lawn and shovel the snow for me. They would also check on my house when I wasn’t home. They were such sweet neighbors. I was sad when Richard was injured, causing them to move.

When I think about my teachers and my neighbors, I have nothing but positive and beautiful thoughts. They made me feel important, special, and most importantly loved. And that is exactly how I want people to remember me. I want people to not only remember my accomplishments, but how I made them feel, how I inspired them, and how I treated them.

Think about it.

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    I never really think about that. Since I never had children I leave No Legacy behind. Pretty much after you die people tend to forget about you once you’re dead. Also being that I’m estranged from my family there is a good chance I’ll be thrown in Potters Field which is where NYC puts people without family or poor people. Being a Solitary I keep to myself. I have no church affiliation. After I’m gone I’ll only be a distant memory and maybe some people will continue to read my blogs. As a Christian my focus is on being reunited with my parents and other family members who have gone before me. My life on this earth is just a drop in a massive ocean. There will be no Home going service for me on this earth but there will be a Great Celebration for me when I walk through those Pearly Gates.

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      That is how you would be remembered, not only through your blogs, but through your interactions. I know I would remember you for your love and care of your brother. I can hear me now telling people “I know this fellow blogger who was so dedicated to her brother, that it made me cry.” 🙂

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